A: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGY37Am7dQ4&ab_channel=LecturesBeyondBeyond
This is the video with Mahesh bhat... Whats funny is that they talk about frustration and the conversation looks frustrating..
Also Mahesh's reactions are epic man.. Its like.. I came to this guy to get rid of my frustration but ending up with more frustration
B: It’s hard to understand this
A: Which part
B: All of it .. I don’t have a context
A: Hmm
What do you do when you're hungry?
Like really really hungry
B: Eat something
A: But you won't just sit and worry that you're hungry, what do I do.. I am hungry etc etc right?
B: That can happen. Example, I am my mom’s consultation. Time is 2:30. doctor will see us in another 10 mins. I am hungry. So I worry for a bit, then plan to eat after some time. So yeah, I do say, I’m hungry etc
A: But to satisfy the hunger u need to eat right?
B: Yes
A: For that you have to act which is eat
B: Yes
A: That's what he says
He gives example of a bitch(a prostitute)
U see a girl, you want to fk her.. u will only know if she is okay with it or not only when u approach her
If u sit n think what she might think.. it's of no use
Mahesh says.. that he thinks if she would be okay with it or not etc etc.. for which UG says yea that's where all your morale n other things come n u end up in those thoughts.. But reality is when you approach her
B: I see
So the idea is if something is bothering then instead of talking about it, just act on it
A: Yes
This concept has helped me while I was in office
When I had something that I wanted to tell to my office people.. I used to think of the various outcomes
Will it be like this .. will they react like this.. etc etc. Then I just shut my mind and just told the things I wanted to tell and the outcome was better than what I was worrying about
B: I see